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Solutions Saturday – May 23 – Initiate Solutions for New Beginnings

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Happy Saturday, Memorial Day Weekend! How is yours going so far?

 

 

I have to brag on my hubby, who is actively demonstrating his love and commitment to me and our marriage by taking on all the household tasks and errands I can’t do while I’m recuperating from surgery.

 

He’s even going the extra mile (or 2 or 3) by doing some de-cluttering and implementing some DIY solutions for issues around the house, such as making a gate on hinges between the kitchen and livingroom to keep the dogs contained where I can see them from where I’m camped out in our bedroom. And vice versa, when I’m ready for a change of scenery and decide to sit in the livingroom, I can close the gate to this end of the house and keep the dogs with me in the livingroom.

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So with this focus on finding solutions to whatever life may throw at us (such as my current situation), I’d like to share an older post from another blog of mine.

On solutions and new beginnings:

Initiating solutions–causing the process or action of finding answers to a problem or situation to begin–is often necessary when we need to make changes or a fresh start for some reason.

 

Learning from our mistakes also comes into play here, because it’s all too easy to get hung up on past mistakes or missed opportunities, and allow that negative energy to affect us so much that we get discouraged and feel like we’re hopeless cases.

 

Instead, as this quote says, we should consider yesterday’s mistakes as lessons learned, and use them to help us appreciate each new day and take advantage of the fresh start.

 

I have struggled for more years than I care to recall with the feeling that if I didn’t accomplish a certain goal “on schedule” (by my pre-determined timeline or “To Do” list), it meant I had failed for that day, week, or month. Rather than shaking off the negative feeling, I often allowed the downward spiral to continue so I felt more and more miserable about myself, resulting in self-condemnation.

 

The idea that “every day is a new beginning” – or that we can even have a new beginning in the same day, if the morning got away from us, for example – is a refreshing revelation.

 

An additional concept about beginning at the beginning to change course and pursue purpose with new incentive and determination is the importance of writing your plan and referring to it. I know not everyone who reads my blog shares the same beliefs in God, but some of these principles are still worth considering, whether you want to attribute them to God or reference another “Higher Power” beyond yourself.

 

If you have been asking God to lead you in the way  you should go,

you will have a sense of purpose building in you.

You can ask Him to help you plan your day, your week, and your life.

I encourage you to write down the things

that God imprints on your heart to do.

Writing the vision, and placing it where you can routinely see it,

will help settle the plan God puts inside of you.”

Joyce Meyer

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So who’s with me?  Let’s make a fresh start together in pursuing our respective purpose in our lives!

Whether you trust God or another “Higher Power”  for help along the way, or grasp the principles of the Laws of Attraction and speak positive affirmations over your life, today can be a new beginning on the path to pursue your purpose.

 

5 Comments

  1. Jeanne Melanson

    Thank you for the reminder to keep starting a new day instead of wallowing in failure. We’re so hard on ourselves, aren’t we? Thanks to your awesome husband as well. He sounds wonderful for doing all he’s doing for you. I hope your recovery will be a fast one and you’ll be good to go before you know it. Peace
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    23 . May . 2015
  2. Francene Stanley

    I needed to hear this today, Karen. Each day should be a new beginning. Trouble is–we carry over our hurts and fears from yesterday. I DO believe that ‘Now is the only reality’ in this world. So, I should live that way.

    24 . May . 2015
  3. Carol Cassara

    Yes, each day a new opportunity to do better.
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    24 . May . 2015
  4. Misty Spears

    What a fantastic and loving hubby you got there! Gotta love those men that know how to step up.

    I know exactly what you mean about failing. I often times fail at one part of something huge and I feel like I failed the entire thing. One little slip up and bam…I’m done. We really are way too hard on ourselves.
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    25 . May . 2015
  5. Salma

    Such a beautiful quote. I’m going to have to save that one.
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    26 . May . 2015

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