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Sad Day – Loss of a Fur Baby – November 3


Around 2:00am on Tuesday, November 3, my hubby Dave and I awoke suddenly to an awful noise. It sounded like one of our cats half choking, half yowling. Dave ran out to the kitchen where the cat was, while I restrained the dogs. In less than a minute, Dave carried our oldest cat, Mack, into the bedroom while we then put the dogs in the kitchen. Dave laid Mack on the bed and said, “I think we lost him, Babe.”


In Loving Memory of our Mackster.
           In Loving Memory of our Mackster.


And sure enough, just like that, Mack was gone. He was the “old man” of our fur babies at 10 1/2 years old. We have five other cats, all from a litter of feral kittens who arrived in our yard six years ago. We captured them, socialized them, and then couldn’t part with any of them. We also have two pups, ages  3 and almost 2 years old. Mack was having some age-related health issues, but nothing serious–that we were aware of, at least. However, after taking his body to our vet later that day, she said based on the fluid that had pooled under his open mouth in the box we had placed him in after he died, he likely had fluid in his lungs, congestive heart failure, or both.



Mack and Smokey “helping” with the laundry.


Mack and Dave doing their “head bump.”














If you have never owned pets, you might not understand why we have been so distraught over this loss. If you DO own pets, then you understand they are like family members. Losing one, especially so suddenly and unexpectedly–in such an awful way–has been devastating and we have shed many tears, while also lavishing love and attention on our other fur babies.


We can only hope Mack didn’t suffer much, as he passed quickly. We know we gave him a good, loving home for several years since he chose us at the shelter (seriously, he stepped out of a cage in a top row and settled into our arms, like he had been waiting for us). And now we just envision Mack reunited with our then 12 1/2 year-old black lab, Kita, who we said goodbye to almost 3 years ago, when we had to make that difficult decision to end her suffering from cancer and arthritis.


Mack and Kita, from 2009.
                  Mack and Kita, from 2009.



Goodbye and rest in peace, dear Mackster Buddy! We will miss you.





  1. Elizabeth O.

    Losing a fur baby is like losing a best friend. They are so precious. I feel you, and I’m sorry for your loss.

    06 . Nov . 2015
  2. peppylady (Dora)

    Lot of word I do not have…So Sorry for your lost.
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    06 . Nov . 2015
  3. Jennifer Clay

    Awww, I am sorry for your loss.
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  4. michelle

    I still miss my cat everyday. She was my best friend and I was heart broken when she died. I was even more heart broken that she died while I couldn’t be with her. I’m so sorry for your loss
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  5. Shann Eva

    Awe. I’m so sorry for your loss. When we lost my childhood cat, it was just so sad. They are truly like family members.
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  6. tara pittman

    So sorry for your loss. I know you will miss the cat.
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  7. rika

    Sorry for your loss. i never forget my old dog 🙁 He died 10 years ago
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  8. Lexie Lane

    I’m sorry for your lost. I feel you, it just like you lost a bestfriend.
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  9. Rachel Mouton

    This is such a sad thing to deal with. We love our furbabies so much <3
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  10. Claire

    I’m sorry for your loss, I’ve lost a cat recently and it is heartbreaking, sending you a massive hug x
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  11. victoria

    So sorry for your loss. I know that feeling its really a heart breaking

    07 . Nov . 2015
  12. Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there 🙁

    07 . Nov . 2015
  13. Nancy Davis Kho

    So very, very sorry to read this- we lost our dog a month ago and I can understand only too well the pain and sadness you’re feeling. Wishing you happy memories of your beautiful Mack and a sense of gratitude for all the ways he enriched your lives.

    07 . Nov . 2015
  14. Margaret Brown

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Karen. It’s never easy to lose our fur babies.

    07 . Nov . 2015
  15. Valerie

    My condolences to you and your family. The pain of losing a pet…a fur babie…a four legged family member…is heartbreaking and never easy. Find comfort in the memories.

    07 . Nov . 2015
  16. Claudette

    Sorry for your loss. Pets do become very much a part of the family and their passing is no less challenging to deal with. May the Peace that passeth all understanding comfort you. Namaste
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  17. Teresa Bowen

    My thoughts are with you, I know exactly how you are feeling at the moment. Take comfort from the fact that he chose you and you gave hime a wonderful home for the time he was with you.

    07 . Nov . 2015
  18. Vaishakhi

    RIP Mack. So sorry for your loss. I’ve been there and do know what you are going through. The loss of a fur baby is never compensated. All we know is that they go to a wonderful place called Pet Heaven are happy ever after.

    07 . Nov . 2015
  19. Amber NElson

    So sorry to hear this. It’s hard losing a pet.
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  20. Bethany Lotulelei

    Aw, I am so sorry for your loss! Losing a pet is always so devastating. 🙁
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  21. Mykidsguide

    I am so sorry for your loss. That’s exactly how I felt when we lost our dog last year.
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    07 . Nov . 2015
  22. Dawn

    I’m so sorry about the loss of your fur baby. It can be so hard to lose a loved pet.
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    08 . Nov . 2015
  23. Eileen Kelly

    Oh I am so sorry – we have a rescue dog – 2 years now and I can’t imagine our life without him So sorry for your loss

    08 . Nov . 2015
  24. Janine

    They are your family, even if you have a boatload of kids. Some of the hardest things I’ve had to write have been about losing one of our fur babies… my heart goes out to you.

    08 . Nov . 2015
  25. Heidi

    I understand your pain, it is a tough situation just remember them happy is my best advice.

    08 . Nov . 2015
  26. Ana De- Jesus

    RIP Mackster I hope the grass is greener on the other side x
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    08 . Nov . 2015
  27. Liz Mays

    I can’t even imagine how much pain you must be in now. I’m so very sorry!
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    08 . Nov . 2015
  28. Shaylee @ Data Nerds

    I’m so, so sorry for your loss! I have three cats as well and can’t imagine what I would do if anything happened to them 🙁
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    09 . Nov . 2015
  29. Salma

    So sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you both.
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    09 . Nov . 2015

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