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Rules of Happiness #3 – Say Yes More — January 8 Devotions

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It’s the second Friday of 2016, and the end of the first full week of January. How are things going for you?  Based on the feedback I’ve been getting, many of you are enjoying this series already on the Rules of Happiness (NOT an affiliate link) by Karl Moore.

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So far we learned about:

Rule #1: Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself.

Rule #2: Be Grateful.

 

Onto today’s rule…

 

Rule #3 – Say Yes More

 

“We fight against what happens to us in life, rather than allowing it to be as it is. We resist it, rather than accepting it. We say ‘No!’ rather than saying ‘Yes’ – or even just ‘Okay.’

 

By saying ‘Yes!’ more to life, we go with the flow. Things become more enjoyable and positive, less stressful and anxious, and often the situation turns out for the better, regardless.”

I will say yes to every favor, request, suggestion and invitation.

I will swear to say yes where once I would say no.”

– Danny Wallace

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My reflections:

I can understand the rationale behind this idea, of promoting and focusing on a more positive lifestyle, because positive over negative certainly leads to more happiness. But I’m thinking you only say ‘yes’ when it’s sensible and safe to do so.

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So what are YOUR thoughts?

Do you agree with this “rule” of happiness? Do you think this rule might be “conditional” on circumstances related to saying ‘yes’?

20 Comments

  1. Jennifer Hickey

    Love It!

    08 . Jan . 2016
  2. Elizabeth O.

    Or learn to say NO from time to time as well. That’s really nice, not limiting yourself or not being afraid to say Yes. It definitely makes more way for happiness in our lives.

    08 . Jan . 2016
  3. Lexie Lane

    I agree with you rule of happiness, your rule has no condition.
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  4. tara pittman

    Say yes more to things that make one happy. Say yes to me time is a good one.
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  5. Peter Reginald

    OH MY GOSH! YES! Last Christmas someone got us a token gift which is one of those “No” buttons where you press it and it screams out “No” in various voices.

    Anyway, I’ve had to ban that thing because it’s had our household saying NO way too much!

    Someone should make a “Yes” button! haha.

    09 . Jan . 2016
  6. michelle

    i don’t think saying yes is always the right thing to do but i do try to say yes when i think its appropriate
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  7. Claire

    I love the positivity of this series and I look forward to reading more 🙂
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  8. Garth Delikan

    Positivity and happiness just seem to go hand in glove don’t they?

    09 . Jan . 2016
  9. Claudette

    There is so much truth in what you say today! 🙂
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  10. Ana De- Jesus

    It depends on the context that you say yes in, sometimes it can be okay to say no too!
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  11. Jonathan Key

    It’s so good to say yes. Saying no can be a big deal too!
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  12. tonygreene113

    i cant see myself saying yes too much to my son or he would abuse it.
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    09 . Jan . 2016
  13. melandria romero

    i guess having a positive mind and doing what you think you love best works really well 🙂
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    10 . Jan . 2016
  14. Nicole Escat

    I think it depends on a situation to say no and yes.
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    10 . Jan . 2016
  15. Jessica Cassidy

    I always stay positive, hopeful and stay away from negative vibes.

    10 . Jan . 2016
  16. Marielle Altenor

    Learning to say yes to certain things can actually be a good thing. I’m so used to saying no though lol
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    10 . Jan . 2016
  17. Mardene Carr

    YES to anything that is positive and uplifting
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    10 . Jan . 2016
  18. Danielle Des

    I agree with your rationale – its so much more fun to say Yes whenever possible.

    10 . Jan . 2016
  19. MyTeenGuide

    I love saying yes to positive things. Great post!
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    10 . Jan . 2016
  20. Salma

    These are really great rules. I am going to have to check out that book. Thanks for sharing these and helping us add happiness into our days
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    12 . Jan . 2016

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