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Returning to Blogging after Hiatus – and Happy Father’s Day!

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**RETURNING TO BLOGGING…

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY! **

Greetings! It’s really me and I’m finally back to blogging after an unplanned hiatus.

I was quite sick for most of May with “The COUGH” that wouldn’t go away! I wondered at one point if I would end up in the hospital. Toward the end of the month, after a lot of resting, fluids, and meds — along with prayers — I finally recovered. Following that, the dissertation process for my Doctor of Education program moved into high gear. I completed my study, wrote my final two chapters, my dissertation Chair approved them, and then encouraged me to submit my full dissertation manuscript. He and my other committee member approved it last Sunday, June 11…and my oral defense is scheduled for Monday, June 26th!! My 7 1/2-year journey is nearly over!

 

My sources of inspiration: the quote I’ve often posted as my Facebook cover photo or my laptop photo as in this picture; the mug on the left during the journey; and the mug on the right as my ultimate goal!

 

Next…Happy Father’s Day  to all the dads out there – and to the moms who are filling the dad role for a variety of reasons! This is my 15th Father’s Day without my beloved Dad who passed away in 2002 with lymphoma and it’s still a difficult holiday for my siblings and me.

 

My Dad, the Master Encourager.
   My Dad, the Master Encourager

 

It always amazes me how emotional I still get on these special days, as so many memories come flooding back. My Dad was not only a great husband, father, and grandfather…but also a wonderful man, loved by everyone who knew him well.

 

Dad was born in Florida. He grew up to serve his country in the Army, stationed in Germany, where he met an Air Force lieutenant. After completing their service, they went back to her home state of New Hampshire, got married, and raised four kids. Dad eventually became grandfather to 11, and great-grandfather to 8 (so far). Unfortunately, he never had the joy of meeting any of the great-grandchildren, since lymphoma stole him much too soon on September 2, 2002, at the age of 69.

 

At all times, Dad loved his Lord, his wife, his children, his grandchildren, his other family members, and his friends. He was one of the best role models and life examples of being a godly man.

 

I just want to encourage all of you who still have your Dads with you – if you have good and healthy relationships with them – cherish the time you have together, and appreciate each day of life, while you can!

 

Back in 2012, I wrote this book in Dad’s honor  and memory, entitled Fatherly Reflections.

 

 

Here is an excerpt and “sneak peak” from the introduction:

 

Two weeks before Father’s Day 2012, I awoke with the inspiration to write my first book, focusing on the topic of fatherhood.  

 

My initial thought was to include the various reflections, poems, and words of wisdom about and from my own Dad. Then I decided to expand it to include thoughts from other family members and friends for whom my Dad was a father, a grandfather, a father figure, and/or an inspiration in their lives in some way.

 

In another section, I decided to include thoughts from other people about their own fathers, grandfathers, father figures, and — yes — reflections on our Heavenly Father.

 

Finally, since I know not everyone has had the benefit of having a wonderful Dad like I did, I decided to include a section of thoughts for current and future fathers about things to do and NOT do in order to be good fathers.

 

The experience of writing this eBook has been an amazing journey, reflecting on my childhood and 50+ years of life — all influenced by the amazing man I was proud to call Dad: Ben Willis.

 

 

So what are YOUR thoughts?

 

How have you been for the past several weeks?

 

Did the special man in your life  (or you, if you’re a dad!) enjoy this Father’s Day?

 

If your father is not still with you, how have you managed to get through this day?

 

 

 

 

 

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7 Comments

  1. Samantha

    My father is still living, however he is not present in my life. Days that celebrate parents are hard for me as I have never had a good relationship with either one. However, on these days I make more of a point to focus and celebrate myself & the person I have become by myself. 🙂 thanks for the great article.

    18 . Jun . 2017
  2. Mandy Allen

    I see my dad a couple of times a year. He lives in another country and never comes home so it is up to me to travel to see him, which he would like me to do more often but work and finances prevent that. I’d spend more time with him if I could but I care full time for my mum so it’s difficult to get away without the work and finances constraints! He hasn’t seen my sister for 10 years or more because they are both stubborn and think the other one should make the effort. It’s wonderful that you had such a good relationship with your dad.

    Enjoy the journey!

    19 . Jun . 2017
  3. Sharon T McLaughlin MD FACS

    I love that, “be grateful for today”. Very powerful message.

    19 . Jun . 2017
  4. Jenny

    What a lovely and loving tribute to your father. It can be such a difficult day.

    19 . Jun . 2017
  5. Lynn Woods

    What a very nice tribute to your Dad!

    19 . Jun . 2017
  6. MONNKA

    Lovely tribute to your Dad!

    20 . Jun . 2017
  7. Sandy KS

    My dad, Is still alive. I see home several times a year because my stepmom and he are so busy. it really is hard to catch them at home unless it is planned. he has never been to my home, he doesn’t visit any of his kids. He wants us to visit him.

    29 . Jun . 2017

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